December 4 - 2019

Mrs. M's Dream Session

Have you ever done a boudoir shoot before?This was my very first. I was very comfortable the entire time, which was surprising. Why did you do your boudoir shoot?I want to remember my body as it is now. I’m still breastfeeding, and I ...

November 27 - 2019

Give Thanks?

Can you even believe that Thanksgiving is tomorrow?!? I don't know about you, but this time of year I really get lost in all of the things that I have to do. Order groceries, thaw the turkey, finish projects with my kids for school, make ...

November 19 - 2019

How to Get Your Best Hair and Makeup Look Possible

We have a special guest this week: my outrageously talented hair and makeup artist, Danee Foster! Read on to get some helpful tips that will help her create your stunning look. You learned a little about me back in October, and now I’d ...

November 13 - 2019

What Am I Supposed to Wear for My Session?

Choosing your outfits for your beauty session should be fun! You have more options than you realize, and there are so many gorgeous styles for every body type. One common misconception about boudoir and beauty photography is that the attire for ...

November 5 - 2019

When You Don't Feel Like Loving Your Body All the Time

Like so many women, I have struggled with body image and insecurities. I love empowering women to see their beauty, but I also know firsthand how difficult it can be to love your body all the time. Enter: body neutrality. I don’t remember ...

October 30 - 2019

Miss C's Dream Couture

We absolutely LOVED both of our sessions with Miss C, who came to us via her friend's referral. Her first session was a Dream Couture session at a beautiful home in Edmond. The house featured many unique art pieces and decor that ...

October 29 - 2019

Affording a Beauty Photography Session

Making the decision to book a beauty session is no small thing, and I totally get that. Here I will address the elephant in the room. Let’s dive headfirst into a topic that many people feel awkward about.Money.I completely understand that ...

October 22 - 2019

Do I Have To Strip Naked From The Get-Go?!

When you're considering booking your session, there are a handful of common concerns you might have. Here are five facts about Red Stiletto's beauty photography sessions. What if I feel weird or uncomfortable? Do I have to get ...

October 15 - 2019

Get to Know Whitney and Danee

Whitney Stilwell and Danee Foster are the creative and talented photographer and hair and makeup artist behind Red Stiletto. Their mission is to empower, encourage, and show women their true beauty through their art. Get to know them better ...

October 8 - 2019

Couples Photography Sessions- Yes, I Offer That!

Have you been looking for a creative way to connect with your partner? A couples session is a fun and intimate way to show your love and desire for one another. If you’ve spent any time at all on this website or my social media, you know ...

October 1 - 2019

The Dream Session-Luxury Beauty Photography

The Dream Session is a half-day photography experience that is guaranteed to leave you feeling sexy, confident, and like the most beautiful version of yourself Last month, I showed you the Dream Couture, our top-of-the-line, luxury beauty ...

September 24 - 2019

The Influential Women Series, Part Five- Anissa Scott

Anissa Scott is the definition of a strong and powerful woman. She has used an experience from her past to become a world champion in her art, and teaches self-defense to women and helps them realize their own strength. Prepare to be inspired as you ...

September 17 - 2019

The Dream Couture Session - A Once in a Lifetime Experience

The Dream Couture session is an experience unlike anything else. Shot at an exclusive venue and with a wardrobe hand-picked with your personal taste and style in mind, you will feel like a model straight from the pages of a high fashion ...

September 11 - 2019

Products to Display Your Photos with Pride!

Last week I shared several tips on choosing the right boudoir photographer, and one of those tips was to take into consideration what kind of products the photographer offers so you can memorialize your session with something tangible. For a ...

September 3 - 2019

11 Tips for Choosing Your Boudoir Photographer

You’ve been thinking about doing a fun and sexy boudoir* shoot, but you’re not sure how to choose the right photographer for you. No worries! Here are my best 11 tips to help you decide.1. Have a phone conversation or in-person ...

August 27 - 2019

The Influential Women Series, Part Four- Mrs. S

Month after month, I am so proud to show off the next powerful, strong, and influential woman on my blog. But this month is extra special for me because Mrs. S is my beautiful, gifted, brilliant, and incredibly loving sister. She didn't include this ...

August 20 - 2019

These Photos Are Not for Right Now

Do you remember that scene in Titanic where the elderly Rose sees the portrait that Jack drew of her? How it takes her breath away and she is flooded with memories of her youth, their brief romance, and the deep emotion of what she experienced at ...

August 13 - 2019

5 Reasons You Should Do a Beauty Photography Session

Okay, ladies. If you’ve seen my blog or been a part of my private Facebook group for any time at all, you know that I celebrate and capture women’s inherent beauty through my photography, no matter their background or stage in ...

August 6 - 2019

It's Okay to Quit

I’m going to say something kind of controversial right now, and I want you to hear me out.It’s okay to quit.Whaaaaaat?!You can’t say that!That’s not what all the motivational memes say! They say to keep trying, keep chugging ...

July 30 - 2019

The Influential Women Series, Part Three- Lauren Golden

Lauren Golden is the founder of The Free Mama and The Free Mama Movement. She helps moms prepare to leave their jobs to work from home on their own terms and live a totally awesome, guilt-free life. Read on for some serious wisdom and ...

July 23 - 2019

Canada, Part 2

Beauty in the Wilderness and Toronto Model Call Last week, I shared the personal, and very unexpected growth, I experienced while at Camp Do More. If you haven’t read it yet, check it out here!This week I will wrap up the Canada ...

July 16 - 2019

Canada, Part 1

An Unexpected Outcome Last month, I had the privilege of attending Camp Do More in Toronto, Canada. It’s an incredible training, development, networking, and connection event for boudoir photographers from all over. It is impossible to ...

July 10 - 2019

Shutter Magazine Anniversary Edition Feature

Courageous Evolution We did it again! We are so excited to share that we received another feature in Shutter Magazine, the world's leading photography publication! Their Anniversary Edition proudly displays our photo ...

July 3 - 2019

Fitting Room Reflections

This past weekend I was trying on swimsuits. Every woman's favorite pastime, I'm sure.I wasn't thrilled about what I saw in the mirror, under those harsh fluorescent lights. The tops didn't really hold in the breasts that spent so many months ...

June 26 - 2019

The Influential Women Series, Part Two- Stacy Eads

Stacy Eads is a fantastic example of a woman killing it in a male-dominated field. Read on for some awesome words of wisdom from this powerful woman! How would you describe what you do for a living?As a Woman in Tech who quickly achieved back ...

June 19 - 2019

10 Tips to Help You Prepare for Your Beauty Session

You've booked your beauty photography session. You've bought some gorgeous outfits and have your hair and nail appointments scheduled. But what else should you do? Here are my best tips to help you get ready for a session you won't soon ...

June 12 - 2019

Don't Let Your Fitness Goals Ruin Your Vacation

You heard me right. You can ready plenty of blogs on keeping fit and tracking calories while on vacation, but this is not one of them.Learn from my mistakes. I went to Spain… SPAIN, people! And all I thought about was my calories, hitting the ...

June 5 - 2019

A Letter to Tired Women Everywhere

Dear Tired Woman,I see you. I am you.I’m talking about the kind of tired that is only partially related to sleep. The kind of tired that a good night’s sleep or a long Sunday nap would only be a band-aid for.It’s the kind of tired ...

May 29 - 2019

Introducing the Influential Women Series- Dawn Karlin

I am so excited to kick off this monthly series featuring powerful and influential women! I've got some amazing boss babes lined up to share some of their wisdom with us. First up is Dawn Karlin, a midwife in Oklahoma who holds a very ...

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